6 important things to do BEFORE your baby starts on solid foods

1. Consider taking an infant CPR/choking class or if you already have, brush up on what to do in the event of a choking situation. While it’s very unlikely your baby will truely choke (vs gagging) if you’re using safe feeding techniques, it can happen & you’ll feel much more confident if you know exactly what to do.


2. Bring baby to the table to let him/her watch you eat. Hold your baby on your lap. Talk to your baby about foods you are eating. Say the names and tell him/her how the food tastes. 


3. Start letting your baby play with spoons, cups, and bowls outside of mealtime. 

4. Take note of your baby’s breast/bottle feeding schedule and try to get a general sense of when he/she eats. Also note  when during the day he/she is most calm, alert, interactive. This will serve as a guide for scheduling solids food meals. Aim to identify a time when your baby is awake and well rested, calm, and not hungry. First meals are all about taste and exploration, not eating and quantity so there is no need for your baby to be hungry. 

5. Talk to your pediatrician about any potential allergy risks or special considerations for your baby with feeding. 

6. Have the equipment you need ready: out of the packaging, clean, set up if needed, & familiar to you so your not struggling or using incorrectly at first. I suggest considering the following:
– non-breakable bowls/plates
– child size spoons
– bibs
– high chair or booster seat with safety straps
– splash mat
– lots of towels
– an apron for you to wear (sounds excessive but feeding is messy business at first!)

5 signs your baby is ready to start solids (not age based!)

Pretty much across the board pediatricians encourage parents to start solid foods at a certain age (some say 4-6 months, others suggest around 6 months, others 6 months and older.) Between 4 to 6 months is the most common time frame, but this is a HUGE spread in baby time.

Major skills and maturation occurs between 4 to 6 months, such as the ability to sit independently. While we can’t see it as obviously, your baby’s body is also maturing and growing on the inside (the stomach, reflex patterns, and immune system for example are all changing during this time.)
Age is a vaguely helpful guideline but each baby is SO different that age is an unreliable indicator and should actually be low on our list of check offs that help you decide if your baby is ready to transition to solid foods. The primary indicators of readiness are developmental skills and interest. That means, your baby should have the following skills/signs to show you that she or he is ready to start eating solid foods:

1. Head and neck control- not wobbly at all. Your baby should be able to hold his head up while sitting, by himself for at least 15-20 minutes. 
2. Trunk control/sitting independently- possibly a bit wobbly but at least sitting for a few minutes by herself if placed in a sitting position without toppling over. Even better if she can get into and out of a sitting position by herself. 
3. Fine motor coordination- to reach for and grab items and bring to the mouth. This can be toys, a spoon, or food. Your baby should have enough eye/hand coordination to at least reach towards objects and push them around the table while trying to pick them up. 
4. An emerging pincer grasp (picking a smaller item up with the pads of the thumb and index finger)- around the same time that your baby is ready to begin solid foods, she will also be starting to try to pick up smaller and smaller items that she comes across (lint on the floor, stray dog food, anything gross and small will probably catch your baby’s attention.) 
5. An active interest in food, watching you eat, being a part of the meal, and touching/exploring food-the motor skills I mentioned above will generally coincide with your baby’s overall interest in food and  eating. Your baby will go from being fairly content to sit in your lap or in a sling while you’re at the table and maybe even nap through a meal, to wanting to be a part of it all. He will try to grab food from your hands and off your plate. He will intently watch you bring food to your mouth. If you let your baby be a part of your mealtimes, around the time he or she is ready to start solids you’ll see a distinct interest as though your baby is asking for you to let him/her eat!

Rice cereal

There is generally very little research regarding best “first foods.”  What guides first food recommendations are tradition and culture, a bit of science, as well as ideas that “sound good in theory.” Here in the US, this has led to the recommendation of rice cereal as the doctor-recommended first food. The reasons behind the rice cereal:
1. Rice cereal is fortified with iron and iron stores from birth start to dwindle over time and may need food sources to be replenished by six-ish months.
2. Rice cereal has low risk of causing allergy. 
3. Rice cereal is easily mixed with breast milk (or formula) into a runny and easily accepted consistency which will taste sweet and familiar. 
4. Runny foods are not a choking risk (actually they can cause choking–aspiration is the better term– and liquids and runny foods are the most commonly aspirated foods. However, they do not cause full airway obstruction choking which doctors are primarily concerned with because even though it is significantly more rare, it can be deadly.)
5. Although the AAP recommends starting solids “around 6 months” many people start solids even before 4 months. Rice cereal and other purée is easily ingested by a very immature baby. 
6. Rice cereal is manufactured on a large scale, readily available, and purchased in a standard box with simple mixing instructions, which makes it the same for just about everyone. This allows for consistency between doctors’ recommendations. High and low income families alike educated or not, all will give pretty much the same thing with little concern of misinterpretation. This makes it an easy go-to recommendation for doctors. 
Liver is rich in iron

Liver from grass fed, well cared for cows is very high in iron and used to be a staple in babies’ diets. 

While many of these reasons make sense, there are a few points to consider that might steer you away from rice cereal as a first food:
1. Rice cereal is a simple carbohydrate and as such it spikes your baby’s blood sugar, without offering much by way of nutrition.

2. It is a processed food and in general, almost every doctor out there recommends NOT to give babies processed foods, especially at first. Processed foods are not as healthy as whole foods, like fruits, vegetables, and well sourced meats.

3. While babies will accept almost any food you give them at first, toddlers and school age children are significnatly more likely to be picky eaters.  If you have a picky eater on your hands, you can confirm that picky eating children almost across the board love carbohydrates (cookies, crackers, pasta, rice) but generally refuse veggies and protiens.  Since we don’t really need to worry about kids learning to eat carb, why start with a simple carb as the very first solid food they ever eat? This may lay down a foundation for a lifetime love of simple, processed carbohydrates. 

4. Breast milk and formula are high in protein and fat so this is what your baby’s stomach is used to processing. Some argue that your baby’s body doesn’t even produce the enzyme necessary to properly breakdown carbohydrates at 4-6 months. This causes foods like rice cereal to be hard on your baby’s stomach. 
5. There are other foods besides rice cereal that naturally offer iron in higher amounts and in a more easily absorbable form.

6. Arsenic (a known carcinogen and poison) has been reportedly found in commercially available rice cereal in 2012. 

7.  If you follow the AAP recommendation to start solids at or around 6 months, your baby most likely has mature enough gross motor and oral motor skills to eat a wide variety of foods. 
8. Ask any pediatrician or infant feeding specialist: the whole point of those first few months of transitioning to solids is oral exploration and play with motor pattern learning. Rice cereal offers very little in terms of sensory input and doesn’t challenge developing oral motor skills. It is so easily ingested it hijacks the focus from play and exploration and puts it on intake and quantity. 
9. Looking again towards toddlerhood- It takes very minimal oral motor coordination to eat things like crackers, cookies, and processed meats (I.E. chicken nuggets). It takes mature and strong oral motor skills to eat resistive foods such as raw and even partially cooked veggies and fruits, nuts, and baked or grilled meats. Building strong oral motor patterns in a safe way, from a young age (before food refusal sets in- around toddlerhood) is crucial to your child accepting these foods when he or she is older. Once he or she hits those toddler years, there is almost always less interest in exploring new foods and practicing how to eat them. If your child doesn’t know how to safely eat resistive foods by toddlerhood, she or he will most likely refuse them completely for years to come- until they grow out of their resistant phase. I’m not suggesting you give choking hazards to your baby, but I am suggesting again that rice cereal does almost nothing to advance oral motor patterns.  There are other first food choices that do provide safe opportunities for oral motor skill advancement.  
If any of these points ring true to you or concern you, I suggest doing your own research and discussing with your baby’s pediatrician before deciding what to give your baby for his/her first solid foods.